My husband and I took Punkie to a restaurant yesterday. It’s a pub with a restaurant area. I changed Punkie’s diaper in the restaurant because there was no changing table in either restroom and neither had a place to put a child for a diaper change except for the floor. I wasn’t feeling great about changing a diaper in a restaurant because I know diapers are gross, but my husband and I felt like we didn’t have another option.
Today, I viewed this video from CNN.com about a woman who brought her three young children to a pizza joint and was promptly kicked out for changing a diaper in the restaurant. She took her baby into the ladies’ room and there was no changing table or any other place where one could put a child down to change a diaper. So, rather than putting her kid on the floor or packing her three kids back up and dragging them out to the car, she changed the diaper quietly and quickly on a chair in the restaurant. The restaurant kicked her out.
Wow. I’ve only had a kid for 8 months and maybe I just never noticed before, but I watch the news and society seems pretty intolerant of moms in public. I don’t accept a world where we expect moms to sit at home until their kids are 18.
If the dumpy little pizza place does not clearly and conspicuously notify customers that children are not welcome and it does not offer any place to change a diaper, then diapers will be changed in the restaurant.
Also, it seemed like they kicked her out just to punish her – the diaper was already changed at that point. Here’s an idea: maybe the employees could have had some compassion and suggested some other place for her to change a diaper, like in the office or another area not used for food prep.
To kick a woman and her three small children out for a discreet diaper change is a whole level of assholedom that I can’t believe we all tolerate.
Don’t tolerate how these people treated this mom. Don’t tolerate malls who proudly display signage of women baring their breasts for commercialism, but who treat breastfeeding mothers like felons (worse than felons, actually, since neither the pizza joint nor a mall would kick someone out for being a felon).
I started to type “Moms should be tolerated in public,” but that’s so absurd to me. Don’t you dare “tolerate” me. I belong in public, same as you.